Wednesday 18 February 2009

Kissing Cousins

As many of you know my Great Grandfather came from Lewis.....part of the reason I think we feel such a affinity with the place. Over the years I have spent hours with The Elder Maciver in Laxay compiling our family tree. The Elder is an amazing man. He has grown up with stories about our family history and learned things "the old way" and he has a huge amount of verbal knowledge in his head. I set out when I first came here to get it all down onto paper, and latterly into the computer

Over the past 10 days or so I entered 218 names into some software called "Brothers Keeper" which is free and allows you to compile a family tree and then get reports out of it. It has been quite compulsive. Our "tree" was on a very long piece of lining paper, and was getting very scrappy and old, so it was a relief to get it onto the computer where I hope it will be less easily spoiled. Yesterday, I spent 2 hours with The Elder, and we added over 120 more names....all straight out of his and his wife's heads! We all ended up with a headache, but with a lot more information in

N spent yesterday afternoon with his new friend D, and D's Dad, Mr Bonfire, at the other end of the village. Quite by chance last week I was looking through some old papers I had kept with scribbled notes about the family tree, and I realised that my GG Grandmother, Mary Macaulay came from G, the village where we now live. In fact, I realised she came from number 4, which is where Mr Bonfire's mother lives.....and later we realised that Mr Bonfire and I are kissing cousins!! Can't quite work out what the connection would be called, but it is there, clear as day in the family tree. So, how weird. Not only did I not realise I had a connection to this village, but some of the people I have met since arriving are actually part of my distant family. N and his friend D were truly amazed to realise that they are not only friends but cousins

The boy had a ball yesterday, moving sheep around from one croft to another, feeding the lambs (last years, this years not quite here yet) and riding on his cousin's quad bike! He is really enjoying the outdoors and the freedom up here and we plan to make the very most of it during our year.

Archie the dog is going home tonight - we will miss him.

Sunday 15 February 2009

More Photos

Lots of people have asked for more photos, so here's a selection from the last 3 weeks.....all crammed in together, but hey!
I am afraid I don't know how to turn them round once they are on the blog, but I think you only need to crick your neck for one of them

These are in reverse order, so starting with today! We have a lovely Springer Spaniel staying with us for a few days. Today we went to Europie Sands to try (usaully unsuccessfully!!) to wear the dog out. I ache all over and will be in bed in 10 mins. Archie is raring to go and wants to chase the ball even though it is now dark! This is an empty beach, early afternoon on a day with no rain and little wind. During the 2 hours were on the beach we saw one other person. Love it


Here's N's friend and cousin D (next post will tel the story!). N, D and I had to take shifts to keep Archie satisfied with the ball thrower - I reckon he ran 6-7 miles today



As I said, reverse order. This was yesterday's walk in the Castle Grounds. Archie found the deepest, muddiest, peatiest (real word?) drainage ditch and laid in it. My car is beyond dirty. But he is so lovable we have forgiven him everything






This is the road to Grimshader - our village. When you turn off the main road, you follow a windy (as in lots of twists and turns....not wind) road for about 2 miles to get into Grimshader. Trouble is, it is so windy that I never get to look around, but this picture is typical of the road.


This weekend is a long weekend off school - N is off Friday, Monday and Tuesday, and I have taken the days off to spend the time together. So, the first day off and first day we had Archie, we went to Reef Beech in Uig - never been before. It is a beautiful beach, and very long. Here are the photos from that day



Lovely rock pool, loved the colours



As I said, long beach. Saw not another soul......again......love it!








Sorry, here comes the one you need to crick your neck for! Outside Grimshader there are 3 wind turbines. On Thursday when I went into town to the PO, there were 2 men abseiling down the "arms" (??!!) doing something. It was quite impressive


This was another view of the wind turbines on the same day - clear blue skies, no wind, the loch was like glass

OK, going back a couple of weeks now - sunrise outside the back door! And apparently they get better!

Even further back in time - this was the day with most snow.....again the road into Grimshader


I promise not to leave it so long between photos from now on.
Another post tomorrow, to tell you all about our "new" cousin!

Saturday 14 February 2009

Girls Night Out

I am only 2 weeks late telling you about The Shady Ladies' trip into Town. It was a special occasion, Dr Do-Lots was 40 over the weekend and this was a great excuse for the girls to go out

Mr Bonfire has access to the Community Minibus so we were chauffeured into town in glorious style. I think there were 9 of us (2 weeks is a long time.....that'll teach me!) and we went straight to An Lanntair (the Arts Centre) where the cinema is. When I first came to Lewis the only way to see a film was in a mobile cinema, in the back of a truck which visited the Island about once a fortnight (ferry permitting). Now Stornoway has a beautiful Arts Centre, with gift shop, gallery, coffee shop, bar, restaurant......and cinema. N tells me (and he seems to know far more about this place than I do - and far more people!) that the walls and the stage all move around so the space is completely versatile and can be used for many different events

We watched "The Changling" which was quite grim, but an excellent film. A great feature of "Cinema Stornoway Style", is that you can buy a glass of wine at the bar and take it in to the film with you - fantastic - popcorn and wine! So, by the end of the film, we had each had 2 rather large glasses of wine. I must admit, I thought that would be the end of the evening.....but oh no...we had to visit the pubs too. I have not been into a pub in Stornoway for about 15 years, and to be fair, I think very little had changed (including the carpet). There were a healthy number of drinkers in each place we went, and a few VERY drunk men, but the atmosphere was friendly.

At midnight we sang "Happy Birthday" - and half the 20 year old men in town joined in, obviously believing our party to be of the same generation as them. Amazing what wine can do! Not long after this I remembered I have a son and he was with Mr Welsh Idea back in Grimshader. I fully expected him to be sound asleep when we got back, and to leave him where he was until morning. In fact, when we staggered back to Dr Do-Lots house, there was N with Welsh, wide awake and discussing the merits of the various King Kong films which had been watched during the evening. I think Welsh was closer to sleep than his 8 year old companion!

So a lovely evening, but not such a nice fuzzy head the following morning. But it was worth it. I would like to point out that any reference to naked dancing on tables from Rusty is just a sad example of her hankering after her past. She needs to move on and accept she is now a responsible member of the Grimshader community - honestly, as if we would.....!

Wednesday 4 February 2009

Shady Ladies!

I have been threatening to tell you about the people I have met up here, so that's the subject of this post....Shady Ladies!

Obviously there are the people I have known for a while now, my family, although distant and I'll tell you about them another day. I also have my friend I, who helped us leave Cheshire, and is quite shy, so won't want to see much on here about himself......But for now, we must focus on the people I have met in the village. Here's a cast list:

Rusty Pipes and Mr Methane - it's thanks to these 2 that we found the lovely wee hoos that N and I live in. First appearance - on Dalmor (or was it Dalbeg) beach last summer. I had been to get my hair done and N had gone to the beach with J&L who we were on holiday with. By the time I arrived N had made friends with the 2 lovely girlies, A&E and my friend L was chatting happily to Rusty Pipes (as I now know her!). We got on like a house on fire and when I later realised that a year on Lewis was a real possibility I managed to find them by the miracles of t'internet and the rest is history. Rusty is bonkers and makes me feel right at home here - good advice about where to park the car in a gale and other tidbits you only appreciate when you live on the edge of the world. And she makes a great cuppa. Mr Methane is very quiet, but has an excellent wit, and a great rapport with webcams (managed to install mine for me). He took my family tree away today and by now has probably found out about my great Aunt who died in Holloway after robbing a sub Post Office with a sawn off shotgun

Dr Do-lots and The Welsh Idea (WI) - Thankfully these 2 live at "the right end of the village" with their lovely kids C&O........if you stand on the roof of our hoos you can see the great yellow hoos on the hill where this crowd live! Dr Do-lots has already rescued me form one medical emergency - and hopefully that will be the last of it! She had a BIG Birthday at the weekend and as a result the Shady Ladies ventured forth on Friday night - Stornoway was afraid. More about the trip to town next time. The WI is always in a good mood, always smiling and full of positive energy. He too makes great tea - poofs or builders (ie earl grey or PG tips!)

Mr Bonfire and Victoria (Wood....dinner ladies...think about it, those of you who know her) - live right at the the far end of the village. The 3 of us have had a moment of epiphany, realising that our boys (my N and their D) are truly soul mates. They both love football, guns, wrestling and mud. It is great for N to have a boy a little older to play with, and we have been sharing the driving to and from footie training on a Friday night. S is the long suffering older brother of D, who is really in to internet shopping. Mr B ( as opposed to Mr M....keep up!!) looks after the community minibus and drove us Shady Ladies into town for a our quiet sherry.....and then even came back again to pick us up. What a gent!

We have been very fortunate so far. We came from a lovely village with lots of fantastic friends.....for a while on 06 Jan I did think we must be mad to be leaving to come here and follow our dream. However, it looks like we have had a soft landing, and found more people who can help N and I enjoy our lives and our time on the Island. Still.....early days.....will start the stalking, blackmail and abusive phone calls soon - that'll put the cat among the pidgeons!